• Aug 19, 2025

🌿 Permission to Pause: Why I’m Stepping Back This Fall

  • Shauna Laubman
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This fall, I’m giving myself permission to back off a little.

Not from my values.
Not from my purpose.
But from the constant push to “grow, grow, grow” my business.

A New Season, A New Role

In September, I’m stepping into a new chapter in my teaching career—shifting from high school outreach to working with both junior high and high school outreach students.

For those who don’t know, outreach is a space for kids who are at risk, who need something different from the traditional classroom. These students carry heavy stories, big emotions, and complicated challenges. They need educators who can meet them where they are—with patience, compassion, and creativity.

I know this transition is going to ask a lot of me. Truthfully, I feel both honored and anxious stepping into it.

Facing My Own Bandwidth

The truth is, I can’t do it all—and I don’t want to.

For months, I’ve been trying to keep up with a consistent rhythm of posting on Instagram and TikTok, building my business, and chasing the next milestone. And while I love creating, I’ve realized something important: I don’t have the bandwidth right now to give 100% to my students and keep pushing so hard on social media.

That realization has been difficult. I’ve tied so much of my worth to productivity, growth, and output. But when I listen closely, my nervous system is asking me for something different: space.

What I’m Choosing

So this fall, here’s what I’m choosing:

✨ Less posting on Instagram and TikTok.
✨ More breathing room in my schedule.
✨ Focused presence in the places that matter most.

That doesn’t mean my work with Midlife Wellness disappears. I’m still:

But I’m stepping back from the constant online hustle so that I can show up—fully—for my students and for the women who join me in person.

Returning to My Values

At the end of the day, this decision is about returning to my values.

I’ve always believed that wellness isn’t about pushing harder. It’s about aligning with what really matters, listening to what our bodies and hearts are telling us, and giving ourselves permission to pause.

Right now, my values are calling me toward presence with my students, realism about my energy, and compassion for myself.

And that’s enough.

An Invitation for You

If you’ve ever wrestled with productivity, with the pressure to keep doing and growing—maybe this is your reminder, too.

You are allowed to step back.
You are allowed to choose presence over pressure.
You are allowed to make space to breathe.

I’ll still be here, guiding classes, retreats, and workshops when you’re ready.
But for now, I’m honoring the same truth I teach:

sometimes the bravest move we can make is to pause.

With love,
Shauna

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